Nguyễn Đức An

Here is solutions for Social Script Vault.

1. Work & Professional

Ask for a raise

• What you do in timeframe

• What impact the team

• Based on current market rates -> promotion

Decline additional work

• Full capacity of project

• Ensure I deliver quality work on my existing commitment.

• Will revisit when my schedule more flexibility.

Address a mistake

• I have a mistake is [specific error]

• I understand the impact is [specific consequences]

• Action to correct it

• Future prevention

Follow-up unanswered email

• I follow-up for email from [date] about [subject]

• Deadline

• Do you need any information from me to move forward, let have a discussion or meeting ?

• or please check it

Request feedback

• Appreciate your feedback

• Understand what work well + what to improve

• Help me devlop skills for better results

Set boundaries with colleagues

• I notice I am be interrupt -> make me can not focus.

• Could we agree that in 2-4pm i will be unavailable.

• I happy to help other time.

Dealing with credit-stealing coworker

• I notice my idea is presented without acknowledge my contribution.

• It’s important for me that my work is recognized appropriately

• In the future, I’d appreciate proper attribution when my work is shared. How can we ensure this happens going forward.

Networking follow-up

• It was great to meet you at [event] yesterday and discuss about [topic]

• I particularly enjoyed your insights about [point]

• I would love to [grab a coffee, add friend] so that discuss more about it.

• Would you be available next week ?

Request letter for recommendation

• I am applying [program] and gather recommendation letters to speak about [experience]

• Given our work together about [skill], I believe you could provide valuable insight about abilities.

• Would you willing to write a letter of my recommendation

• I’d happy to provide any information that make this easier to you, including a draft of points to consider.

• The deadline is [date]

Resigning from a position

• Hi manager, I’ve made the decision to resign for [role]

• My last day will be [date]

• I appreciate the opportunies to grow and learn here over the past [time].

• I’d like a smooth transition, please help me with knowledege transfer + training new member during my notice period

Adress workplace conflict

• Hi [name], I’ve noticed some tension between us regarding [topic]

• I would like to discuss it with you.

• My expectation is find a solution that work for both us and improve relationship.

• Could we set aside some time to talk through this privately ?

• I value of perspective and belive we can resolve this constructively

Request flexible work arrangements

• I’d like to discuss the posibility of [specific arrangement, e.g. working remotely 2 day per week]

• That would help me ‘reduce my commute time’ and ‘better manage family responsibilities’ -> while maintaining my productivity.

• I’ve thought about how to ensure it do not impact my work quality and team collaboration.

• I’d happy to discuss my plan for making this successful.

Response to criticism

• Thank you for brining my attention. I appreciate your feedback abot [topic]

• I understandd the [impact of the issue] and take responsibility for that.

• Action to improve

• Catch up it again at [timeframe] to review my progress.

Ask for help with workload

• I have manage serveral projects including [a,b,c]

• I concern about delivering everything at the quality level expected.

• Could we discuss options for redistributing tasks for others or adjusting timeline.

• I have identified some [specific tasks] that might be good candidates for reassignment and deadline extension

Decline a work social event

• Thank you for invitation to [event]

• Unfortunately, I won’t be able to attend due to prior commitment.

• I appreciate being included and looking forward to next team event when my schedule allows.

2. Dating & Relationship

Ask someone out

• I really enjoy to know you over [context]

• I would like to continue our conversation in [coffee/dinner/activity]

• Would you be interested in joining me at [date]

Turn down a date

• Thank you for invitation

• I don’t feel the same connection

• I value [relationship] and hope we can continue to [friend]

End things after a few dates

• I’ve enjoyed getting you know over these past few weeks.

• You are [compliment], but I don’t feel the connection

• I want to be honest rather than just fade away. I wish you all the best.

Break up for long-term relationship

• I’ve been thinking a lot about our relationship, and I feel we should end our relationship.

• I care you deeply, which why I want to be honest with [appropriate reason]

• I know this is painful, I’m truly sorry.

• I hope we can handle this transition with mutual respect.

Setting physical boundaries

• I would like to have conversation about physical relationship.

• I very much enjoy [specific activities you comfortable with] and appreciate the connection we’re building.

• At this point, I want to maintain the boundary and not progress to [activity over the comfort level] until I feel ready.

• I value our relationship and want it feel right for both of us.

• I welcome your thoughts and feelings on this matter, as your comfort is equally important to me.

Define the relationship talk

• I’ve been enjoying the time we’ve spending together and self-thinking about you often.

• I’d like to talk about where we stand and what we’re both looking for.

• I’m interest in [desired relationship] e.g. exclusive relationship and continue to date but keeping thing casual.

• How have you been feeling about us ?

Address relationship concerns

• When [specific situation/behaviour occur], I feel it [affect] you.

• I value our relationship and want us to work through this together.

• Could we discuss how we might address this.